Caregivers and Family - Facing Cancer Together Facing Cancer Together invites anyone to join the conversation as we connect stories and lives of people touched by cancer. 2018-03-27T18:02:40Z Joomla! 1.5 - Open Source Content Management How to Help a Parent Who Has Cancer 2012-10-22T15:59:06Z 2012-10-22T15:59:06Z //facingcancertogether.witf.org/caregivers-and-family/how-to-help-a-parent-who-has-cancer-102212 Stephanie St. Martin <div class="K2FeedImage"><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org//media/k2/items/cache/5b74e738223d177a4030153c35f64896_L.jpg" alt="How to Help a Parent Who Has Cancer" /></div><div class="K2FeedIntroText"><p>How to Help a Parent Who Has Cancer:&nbsp;10 ways to support your parent -- and yourself-- through the journey.</p> </div><div class="K2FeedFullText"> <p>Oct 16, 2012-&nbsp;Nothing is worse than hearing that someone you love has cancer. It's even harder when it's your parent. As children, we typically see our parents as strong and invincible. When they get sick, it's tough. Your roles may reverse, and you may have to start <a href="http://www.care.com/senior-care" target="_blank">caring for your parent</a> as they battle this disease.</p> <p>While it's easy to be overwhelmed and frightened by the thought of cancer, there's a lot you can do to not only help your parent, but help yourself through the process too.</p> <p><strong>Treat Them to Luxuries</strong><br />Helping your parent may be as easy as offering a good foot or back massage. Whether it's done by you or a licensed therapist is up to you. If your mother is the one battling cancer, give her a manicure or pedicure. These small luxuries, and the time you spend together, will be something you and your parent come to cherish.</p> <p><strong><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org/images/OCT_2012/father-with-cancer.jpg" width="300" height="200" alt="father-with-cancer" style="float: left; margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px;" />Enlist Nursing Help</strong><br />Going back and forth from the hospital constantly can be hard...and time consuming. Rather than spending money on gas, hire a certified nursing assistant (CNA) or a visiting nursing assistant (VNA). These skilled nurses can administer IV medication, take vital signs, and perform other medical needs in the comfort of your parent's home. (No hospital room required.)</p> <p><strong>Be a Great Note-taker</strong><br />The thought of cancer can be overwhelming and every doctor's meeting can feel like information overload. "Often the patient is unable to retain much of the meeting," explains Deborah Smith, Senior Vice President for Health Initiatives at the <a href="http://www.cancer.org/" target="_blank">American Cancer Society</a>, New England Division. She suggests designating one person to attend doctor appointments with the patient.</p> <p>Be sure to write down notes about the doctor's plan, goals and next steps. Also include specifics like when they should take medication and problems they may encounter. You can also report to the doctor any side effects they are having. The American Cancer Society offers a list of <a href="http://www.cancer.org/treatment/understandingyourdiagnosis/afterdiagnosis/after-diagnosis-what-should-i-ask-my-doctor" target="_blank">specific questions that patients and families should ask the doctor</a>.</p> <p><strong>Start a Written Correspondence</strong><br />Buy a journal for your parent and write to them in it. In return, they can respond back to you. Talk about any topic you wish. And remember, sometimes it's easier to ask the hard questions or discuss emotional issues if you can write them down. Keep this journal going throughout your parent's treatment. You two will treasure having a written record of your conversations back and forth that will illustrate the journey you took together.</p> <p><strong>Be Patient with Siblings</strong><br />You and your brothers and sisters are all very different and you will each cope with the cancer diagnosis and its effects in different ways. Some may keep emotions locked away internally; others will need ways to let emotions out. Rather than cause additional stress on your parent by constantly<a href="http://www.care.com/senior-care-sibling-strife-how-to-resolve-the-3-senior-care-issues-siblings-fight-about-most-p1017-q6212321.html" target="_blank"> fighting with your siblings</a>, try to be as patient as possible. Lean on your siblings during this time and let them lean on you, so that you can all better support your parent.</p> <p><strong><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org/images/OCT_2012/housekeeper.jpg" width="300" height="200" alt="housekeeper" style="float: right; margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 10px;" />Hire a Housekeeper</strong><br />When you're sick, it's easy to get stressed worrying about everything that you have to do, but that your body won't let you do. Imagine how your parent feels. Let them get the rest and relaxation they need and help out by cleaning the house, doing laundry, buying groceries, etc. If you aren't able to stop by on a regular basis, <a href="http://www.care.com/housekeeper" target="_blank">hire a housekeeper</a> to make a daily, weekly, or even monthly visit. Getting these small tasks completed for your parent will allow them to recuperate without the worry.</p> <p><strong>Give Them a Distraction</strong><br />Surgery recovery and chemo treatments can create a lot of idle time. Purchase a portable DVD player or an iPod to help your parent pass the time. Pick out movies or put together a playlist you think they would enjoy. If they are far away, record videos from your children, your siblings and yourself cheering them on during their fight. And if you are visiting during this time, try starting a new hobby together, such as knitting or card playing.</p> <p><strong>Start a Blog and Shared Calendar</strong><br />When a loved one is diagnosed with cancer, family and friends usually rally around them. This community is wonderful, but can be overwhelming too. Imagine constantly getting inundated with calls from people checking in-always having to repeat the some details over and over. Sometimes your parent won't have time to respond to all of the messages or have the bandwidth to deal with them all.</p> <p><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org/images/OCT_2012/family-blog.jpg" width="300" height="200" alt="family-blog" style="float: left; margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px;" />Instead, <a href="http://www.caringbridge.org/" target="_blank">create a family blog</a> for them. You can update everyone on your parent's health, talk about emotions, and encourage people to leave comments and supportive messages.</p> <p>Want to create a family-hub of chore-delegation and personal info for just the immediate family? Start a Google Calendar you can share with family and close friends and it update with appointments and caregiver schedules. Use Google Drive to keep a running list of to-dos (like chores and bill payments) that still need tackling. People can sign up for a task and lend a hand with your parent's care.</p> <p><strong>Read Stories</strong><br />A parent who has cancer may be very emotional and need the support and inspiration of other cancer patients and survivors. Sit down with your parent and look through blogs and websites that share the amazing stories of other people who are dealing with the big "C". Try <a href="http://www.blogforacure.com/" target="_blank">Blog for a Cure</a>, <a href="http://thecancerwarrior.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">The Cancer Warrior</a> and <a href="http://motherswithcancer.wordpress.com/" target="_blank">Mothers with Cancer</a>. You can even search for stories that talk about the specific type of cancer your parent is dealing with. <a href="https://www.navigatingcancer.com/cancer_blogs" target="_blank">This site</a> is a great place to start.</p> <p><strong><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org/images/Oct_Web/cancer_survivor_men_friends.jpg" width="220" height="146" alt="cancer survivor men friends" style="float: right; margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 10px;" />Create a Good Support System for You</strong><br />And while you're caring for your parent and family, don't forget to care of yourself! Surround yourself with friends who will take your calls and don't mind a night in, as opposed to a fun night out. Allow yourself to cry and let your emotions out. Realize that you don't have to get back to every email and text message. You have a lot going on right now and people know that. You get a guilt-free pass.</p> <p>It's important to get the care you need so you in turn can help your parent. "Learn what steps to take for your own physical health and emotion well-being," says Smith. "Taking care of yourself can make a big difference in the way you feel about your role as a caregiver and in your ability to perform these new tasks and activities."</p> <p><em>Written by</em><br />Stephanie St. Martin, Contributor at <a href="//facingcancertogether.witf.org/Care.com" target="_blank">Care.com</a></p> <p>Originally published at Care.com</p></div> <div class="K2FeedImage"><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org//media/k2/items/cache/5b74e738223d177a4030153c35f64896_L.jpg" alt="How to Help a Parent Who Has Cancer" /></div><div class="K2FeedIntroText"><p>How to Help a Parent Who Has Cancer:&nbsp;10 ways to support your parent -- and yourself-- through the journey.</p> </div><div class="K2FeedFullText"> <p>Oct 16, 2012-&nbsp;Nothing is worse than hearing that someone you love has cancer. It's even harder when it's your parent. As children, we typically see our parents as strong and invincible. When they get sick, it's tough. Your roles may reverse, and you may have to start <a href="http://www.care.com/senior-care" target="_blank">caring for your parent</a> as they battle this disease.</p> <p>While it's easy to be overwhelmed and frightened by the thought of cancer, there's a lot you can do to not only help your parent, but help yourself through the process too.</p> <p><strong>Treat Them to Luxuries</strong><br />Helping your parent may be as easy as offering a good foot or back massage. Whether it's done by you or a licensed therapist is up to you. If your mother is the one battling cancer, give her a manicure or pedicure. These small luxuries, and the time you spend together, will be something you and your parent come to cherish.</p> <p><strong><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org/images/OCT_2012/father-with-cancer.jpg" width="300" height="200" alt="father-with-cancer" style="float: left; margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px;" />Enlist Nursing Help</strong><br />Going back and forth from the hospital constantly can be hard...and time consuming. Rather than spending money on gas, hire a certified nursing assistant (CNA) or a visiting nursing assistant (VNA). These skilled nurses can administer IV medication, take vital signs, and perform other medical needs in the comfort of your parent's home. (No hospital room required.)</p> <p><strong>Be a Great Note-taker</strong><br />The thought of cancer can be overwhelming and every doctor's meeting can feel like information overload. "Often the patient is unable to retain much of the meeting," explains Deborah Smith, Senior Vice President for Health Initiatives at the <a href="http://www.cancer.org/" target="_blank">American Cancer Society</a>, New England Division. She suggests designating one person to attend doctor appointments with the patient.</p> <p>Be sure to write down notes about the doctor's plan, goals and next steps. Also include specifics like when they should take medication and problems they may encounter. You can also report to the doctor any side effects they are having. The American Cancer Society offers a list of <a href="http://www.cancer.org/treatment/understandingyourdiagnosis/afterdiagnosis/after-diagnosis-what-should-i-ask-my-doctor" target="_blank">specific questions that patients and families should ask the doctor</a>.</p> <p><strong>Start a Written Correspondence</strong><br />Buy a journal for your parent and write to them in it. In return, they can respond back to you. Talk about any topic you wish. And remember, sometimes it's easier to ask the hard questions or discuss emotional issues if you can write them down. Keep this journal going throughout your parent's treatment. You two will treasure having a written record of your conversations back and forth that will illustrate the journey you took together.</p> <p><strong>Be Patient with Siblings</strong><br />You and your brothers and sisters are all very different and you will each cope with the cancer diagnosis and its effects in different ways. Some may keep emotions locked away internally; others will need ways to let emotions out. Rather than cause additional stress on your parent by constantly<a href="http://www.care.com/senior-care-sibling-strife-how-to-resolve-the-3-senior-care-issues-siblings-fight-about-most-p1017-q6212321.html" target="_blank"> fighting with your siblings</a>, try to be as patient as possible. Lean on your siblings during this time and let them lean on you, so that you can all better support your parent.</p> <p><strong><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org/images/OCT_2012/housekeeper.jpg" width="300" height="200" alt="housekeeper" style="float: right; margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 10px;" />Hire a Housekeeper</strong><br />When you're sick, it's easy to get stressed worrying about everything that you have to do, but that your body won't let you do. Imagine how your parent feels. Let them get the rest and relaxation they need and help out by cleaning the house, doing laundry, buying groceries, etc. If you aren't able to stop by on a regular basis, <a href="http://www.care.com/housekeeper" target="_blank">hire a housekeeper</a> to make a daily, weekly, or even monthly visit. Getting these small tasks completed for your parent will allow them to recuperate without the worry.</p> <p><strong>Give Them a Distraction</strong><br />Surgery recovery and chemo treatments can create a lot of idle time. Purchase a portable DVD player or an iPod to help your parent pass the time. Pick out movies or put together a playlist you think they would enjoy. If they are far away, record videos from your children, your siblings and yourself cheering them on during their fight. And if you are visiting during this time, try starting a new hobby together, such as knitting or card playing.</p> <p><strong>Start a Blog and Shared Calendar</strong><br />When a loved one is diagnosed with cancer, family and friends usually rally around them. This community is wonderful, but can be overwhelming too. Imagine constantly getting inundated with calls from people checking in-always having to repeat the some details over and over. Sometimes your parent won't have time to respond to all of the messages or have the bandwidth to deal with them all.</p> <p><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org/images/OCT_2012/family-blog.jpg" width="300" height="200" alt="family-blog" style="float: left; margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px;" />Instead, <a href="http://www.caringbridge.org/" target="_blank">create a family blog</a> for them. You can update everyone on your parent's health, talk about emotions, and encourage people to leave comments and supportive messages.</p> <p>Want to create a family-hub of chore-delegation and personal info for just the immediate family? Start a Google Calendar you can share with family and close friends and it update with appointments and caregiver schedules. Use Google Drive to keep a running list of to-dos (like chores and bill payments) that still need tackling. People can sign up for a task and lend a hand with your parent's care.</p> <p><strong>Read Stories</strong><br />A parent who has cancer may be very emotional and need the support and inspiration of other cancer patients and survivors. Sit down with your parent and look through blogs and websites that share the amazing stories of other people who are dealing with the big "C". Try <a href="http://www.blogforacure.com/" target="_blank">Blog for a Cure</a>, <a href="http://thecancerwarrior.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">The Cancer Warrior</a> and <a href="http://motherswithcancer.wordpress.com/" target="_blank">Mothers with Cancer</a>. You can even search for stories that talk about the specific type of cancer your parent is dealing with. <a href="https://www.navigatingcancer.com/cancer_blogs" target="_blank">This site</a> is a great place to start.</p> <p><strong><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org/images/Oct_Web/cancer_survivor_men_friends.jpg" width="220" height="146" alt="cancer survivor men friends" style="float: right; margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 10px;" />Create a Good Support System for You</strong><br />And while you're caring for your parent and family, don't forget to care of yourself! Surround yourself with friends who will take your calls and don't mind a night in, as opposed to a fun night out. Allow yourself to cry and let your emotions out. Realize that you don't have to get back to every email and text message. You have a lot going on right now and people know that. You get a guilt-free pass.</p> <p>It's important to get the care you need so you in turn can help your parent. "Learn what steps to take for your own physical health and emotion well-being," says Smith. "Taking care of yourself can make a big difference in the way you feel about your role as a caregiver and in your ability to perform these new tasks and activities."</p> <p><em>Written by</em><br />Stephanie St. Martin, Contributor at <a href="//facingcancertogether.witf.org/Care.com" target="_blank">Care.com</a></p> <p>Originally published at Care.com</p></div> Turkey Hill’s Four Diamonds Fudge ice cream 2012-07-19T13:00:00Z 2012-07-19T13:00:00Z //facingcancertogether.witf.org/caregivers-and-family/turkey-hill-s-four-diamonds-fudge-ice-cream-71812 Facing Cancer Together <div class="K2FeedImage"><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org//media/k2/items/cache/3e8e1949f1c3300c7f060866b463e01c_L.jpg" alt="Turkey Hill’s Four Diamonds Fudge ice cream" /></div><div class="K2FeedIntroText"><p>“We’ve renamed our Fudge Ripple ice cream Four Diamonds Fudge,” says Bob Adams, manager of the Turkey Hill Experience. &nbsp;Turkey Hill Dairy has partnered with the Four Diamonds Fund, an organization based at Penn State Hershey Children’s Hospital that provides financial and emotional support for pediatric cancer patients and their families.</p> </div><div class="K2FeedFullText"> <p><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org/images/JULY_web/turkey-hill-adams.jpg" width="300" height="203" alt="turkey-hill-adams" style="float: right; margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 10px;" />Adams says, “Each time a person goes into one of the <a href="http://pennstatehershey.org/c/document_library/get_file?uuid=4b2a0399-23f4-4196-854b-b733347114e1&amp;groupId=304420" target="_blank">14 dip shops</a> in the central Pennsylvania area that are offering the product and buys something that’s Four Diamonds Fudge, a portion of the proceeds will go to the Four Diamonds Foundation.” &nbsp;<strong>Scroll down to watch the video.</strong></p> <p>Suzanne Graney, the director of the Four Diamonds Fund says, &nbsp;“It does everything from support caregivers that are helping our patients, to making sure that specialists are available for those families. It is taking care of their medical bills to make sure that a family never has to choose between the care that a child is receiving and other necessities, and takes away that financial burden. “ &nbsp;And a large portion of the fundraising proceeds go towards innovative research at Penn State Hershey Children’s Hospital.</p> <p><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org/images/JULY_web/four-diamonds-ashley.jpg" width="300" height="232" alt="four-diamonds-ashley" style="float: left; margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px;" />One little girl who’s benefited from the Four Diamonds Fund is eight-year-old Ashley Fazekas. &nbsp;“When I was one-and-a-half I was diagnosed with leukemia, and for two-and-a-half years I stayed in the hospital. They paid our medical bills and they just helped us do everything in the hospital."</p> <p><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org/images/JULY_web/four-diamonds-fudge-scoop.jpg" width="300" height="180" alt="four-diamonds-fudge-scoop" style="float: right; margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 10px;" /></p> <p>Adams says, “When you go and purchase something, in addition to part of the proceeds going to the Four Diamonds Fund, you can also enter to win a year’s supply of Turkey Hill ice cream. " &nbsp;<a href="http://pennstatehershey.org/c/document_library/get_file?uuid=e1c130d7-18a1-4462-8883-07afa7879e68&amp;groupId=304420%20" target="_blank">&nbsp;Click here</a> for the contest details. &nbsp;And,<a href="http://pennstatehershey.org/c/document_library/get_file?uuid=f9060eae-f9f7-4661-88b2-c1e57bd791c8&amp;groupId=304420" target="_blank"> click here</a> for the participation card to enter.</p> <p>He adds, "If you’re out there, folks, and you’re going for ice cream, pick up some Four Diamonds Fudge and help the kids.”</p> <p><a href="http://pennstatehershey.org/c/document_library/get_file?uuid=4b2a0399-23f4-4196-854b-b733347114e1&amp;groupId=304420" target="_blank">Click here</a> for all participating locations.</p></div> <div class="K2FeedImage"><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org//media/k2/items/cache/3e8e1949f1c3300c7f060866b463e01c_L.jpg" alt="Turkey Hill’s Four Diamonds Fudge ice cream" /></div><div class="K2FeedIntroText"><p>“We’ve renamed our Fudge Ripple ice cream Four Diamonds Fudge,” says Bob Adams, manager of the Turkey Hill Experience. &nbsp;Turkey Hill Dairy has partnered with the Four Diamonds Fund, an organization based at Penn State Hershey Children’s Hospital that provides financial and emotional support for pediatric cancer patients and their families.</p> </div><div class="K2FeedFullText"> <p><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org/images/JULY_web/turkey-hill-adams.jpg" width="300" height="203" alt="turkey-hill-adams" style="float: right; margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 10px;" />Adams says, “Each time a person goes into one of the <a href="http://pennstatehershey.org/c/document_library/get_file?uuid=4b2a0399-23f4-4196-854b-b733347114e1&amp;groupId=304420" target="_blank">14 dip shops</a> in the central Pennsylvania area that are offering the product and buys something that’s Four Diamonds Fudge, a portion of the proceeds will go to the Four Diamonds Foundation.” &nbsp;<strong>Scroll down to watch the video.</strong></p> <p>Suzanne Graney, the director of the Four Diamonds Fund says, &nbsp;“It does everything from support caregivers that are helping our patients, to making sure that specialists are available for those families. It is taking care of their medical bills to make sure that a family never has to choose between the care that a child is receiving and other necessities, and takes away that financial burden. “ &nbsp;And a large portion of the fundraising proceeds go towards innovative research at Penn State Hershey Children’s Hospital.</p> <p><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org/images/JULY_web/four-diamonds-ashley.jpg" width="300" height="232" alt="four-diamonds-ashley" style="float: left; margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px;" />One little girl who’s benefited from the Four Diamonds Fund is eight-year-old Ashley Fazekas. &nbsp;“When I was one-and-a-half I was diagnosed with leukemia, and for two-and-a-half years I stayed in the hospital. They paid our medical bills and they just helped us do everything in the hospital."</p> <p><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org/images/JULY_web/four-diamonds-fudge-scoop.jpg" width="300" height="180" alt="four-diamonds-fudge-scoop" style="float: right; margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 10px;" /></p> <p>Adams says, “When you go and purchase something, in addition to part of the proceeds going to the Four Diamonds Fund, you can also enter to win a year’s supply of Turkey Hill ice cream. " &nbsp;<a href="http://pennstatehershey.org/c/document_library/get_file?uuid=e1c130d7-18a1-4462-8883-07afa7879e68&amp;groupId=304420%20" target="_blank">&nbsp;Click here</a> for the contest details. &nbsp;And,<a href="http://pennstatehershey.org/c/document_library/get_file?uuid=f9060eae-f9f7-4661-88b2-c1e57bd791c8&amp;groupId=304420" target="_blank"> click here</a> for the participation card to enter.</p> <p>He adds, "If you’re out there, folks, and you’re going for ice cream, pick up some Four Diamonds Fudge and help the kids.”</p> <p><a href="http://pennstatehershey.org/c/document_library/get_file?uuid=4b2a0399-23f4-4196-854b-b733347114e1&amp;groupId=304420" target="_blank">Click here</a> for all participating locations.</p></div> 2012 Camp Can Do in August 2012-06-22T15:13:03Z 2012-06-22T15:13:03Z //facingcancertogether.witf.org/caregivers-and-family/2012-camp-can-do-in-august-62212 Facing Cancer Together <div class="K2FeedImage"><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org//media/k2/items/cache/9cb6e71fd379c0a6d58ef216f9910ae9_L.jpg" alt="2012 Camp Can Do in August" /></div><div class="K2FeedIntroText"><p>The American Cancer Society's Camp Can Do is a "fun fun fun and safe" place for kids who are facing cancer to enjoy summer activities.</p> </div><div class="K2FeedFullText"> <p><a href="http://www.gretnaglen.org/"><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org/images/JUNE_Web/campcando_bikes.jpg" width="220" height="165" alt="campcando bikes" style="float: right; margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 10px;" />Located in the forests of Mt. Gretna, PA</a>, this camp offers kids a place to have fun and connect with other kids who know what they're going through. A trained staff of volunteers and medical professionals are there to attend to the special needs that these kids may have. And, this may be the only chance that some of these kids have to get away from the hospital for a week.<strong><em> Scroll down to see a video of how much fun these kids are having!</em></strong></p> <p><a href="http://www.facingcancertogether.witf.org/caregivers-and-family/camp-can-do-summer-fun-for-kids-facing-cancer-8911" target="_blank">Camp Can Do</a> was created by the American Cancer Society in Pennsylvania in 1983 to provide a getaway for kids currently in treatment, along with kids who are post-treatment. There's even a special camp for their siblings so that they too can feel special at a time when their parents are giving a lot of attention to the child with cancer.</p> <p>The campers range in age from 8 to 17. They get to return every summer for five years if they want. And 90 percent of them do. Even with an all-volunteer crew, it costs the American Cancer Society East Central Division nearly $700 for each camper. But the kids and their families don't pay a cent. The cost is covered by donations.</p> <p><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org/images/JUNE_Web/campgirlstalentshow.jpg" width="220" height="165" alt="campgirlstalentshow" style="float: left; margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px;" />Read an article on Camp Can Do titled <a href="http://www.facingcancertogether.witf.org/caregivers-and-family/where-nobody-stares-53111" target="_blank">"Where Nobody Stares,"</a> and learn about <a href="http://www.facingcancertogether.witf.org/caregivers-and-family/where-nobody-stares-53111" target="_blank">other camps</a> that are especially for kids facing cancer.</p> <p><strong>Details about the 2012 Camp Can Do camping season:</strong></p> <p><strong>When is Camp?</strong><br />Patient Camp Week 1 is scheduled for August 5 through 11, 2012&nbsp;<br />Patient Camp Week 2 is scheduled for August 12 through 18, 2012</p> <p>Website:&nbsp;<a href="http://www.cancer.org/MyACS/Pennsylvania/AreaHighlights/pacampcando">http://www.cancer.org/MyACS/Pennsylvania/AreaHighlights/pacampcando</a></p> <p><strong><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org/images/JUNE_Web/camp_gathering.jpg" width="220" height="165" alt="camp gathering" style="float: right; margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 10px;" />About the Camp:</strong><br />Camp Can Do is a camp sponsored by the American Cancer Society and provides a normal, active and safe camp experience where children can celebrate life while living through their cancer journey. Campers will explore the outdoors, swim, fish, boat, work with arts and crafts, and spend a day at Hershey Park among other activities.</p> <p><strong>Who can Camp?</strong> <br />Patient Camp is for youth ages 8 to 17 who have ever been diagnosed with cancer in the last 5 years may attend Camp Can Do. Sibling Camp is for youth ages 8 to 17 whose brother or sister has been diagnosed with cancer.</p> <p><strong>Where is Camp?</strong> <br />Camp Can Do takes place in cabins at <a href="http://www.gretnaglen.org/" target="_blank">Gretna Glen Camp &amp; Retreat</a>, located in Mt. Gretna, PA<br />Gretna Glen Camp &amp; Retreat Center 87 Old Mine Rd Lebanon, PA 17042</p> <p><strong>What kind of medical accommodations are provided?
</strong><br />Volunteer Pediatric Oncology doctors and nurses are available around-the-clock to administer routine chemotherapy, arrange for blood counts, handle medical emergencies that may arise, and adjust any program to meet campers’ needs.</p> <p><strong><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org/images/JUNE_Web/camp1.jpg" width="220" height="165" alt="camp1" style="float: left; margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px;" />How much does Camp cost?<br /></strong>Camp Can Do is an experience provided at NO COST to all campers.</p> <p>Contact Information: <br />Cindy Gebhard Phone: (717) 533-6144 x3071 <br />Email: <a href="mailto:cindy.gebhard@cancer.org">cindy.gebhard@cancer.org</a></p> <p><a href="http://www.cancer.org/MyACS/Pennsylvania/AreaHighlights/ACSPC-032714" target="_blank">Download the Camp Can Do application</a>, fill it out and mail to:<br />American Cancer Society Attention: Cindy Gebhard <br />Route 422 and Sipe Avenue <br />Hershey, PA 17033</p> <p><strong>American Camp Association Accreditation</strong> <br /><em>Camp Can Do has passed a 300-standard review to become accredited by the American Camp Association (ACA). The ACA collaborates with experts from the American Academy of Pediatrics, American Red Cross, and other youth service agencies to assure that current practices at the camp reflect the most up-to-date, research-based standards in camp operation. ACA accreditation helps to ensure summers of growth and fun in an environment committed to safety.</em></p></div> <div class="K2FeedImage"><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org//media/k2/items/cache/9cb6e71fd379c0a6d58ef216f9910ae9_L.jpg" alt="2012 Camp Can Do in August" /></div><div class="K2FeedIntroText"><p>The American Cancer Society's Camp Can Do is a "fun fun fun and safe" place for kids who are facing cancer to enjoy summer activities.</p> </div><div class="K2FeedFullText"> <p><a href="http://www.gretnaglen.org/"><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org/images/JUNE_Web/campcando_bikes.jpg" width="220" height="165" alt="campcando bikes" style="float: right; margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 10px;" />Located in the forests of Mt. Gretna, PA</a>, this camp offers kids a place to have fun and connect with other kids who know what they're going through. A trained staff of volunteers and medical professionals are there to attend to the special needs that these kids may have. And, this may be the only chance that some of these kids have to get away from the hospital for a week.<strong><em> Scroll down to see a video of how much fun these kids are having!</em></strong></p> <p><a href="http://www.facingcancertogether.witf.org/caregivers-and-family/camp-can-do-summer-fun-for-kids-facing-cancer-8911" target="_blank">Camp Can Do</a> was created by the American Cancer Society in Pennsylvania in 1983 to provide a getaway for kids currently in treatment, along with kids who are post-treatment. There's even a special camp for their siblings so that they too can feel special at a time when their parents are giving a lot of attention to the child with cancer.</p> <p>The campers range in age from 8 to 17. They get to return every summer for five years if they want. And 90 percent of them do. Even with an all-volunteer crew, it costs the American Cancer Society East Central Division nearly $700 for each camper. But the kids and their families don't pay a cent. The cost is covered by donations.</p> <p><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org/images/JUNE_Web/campgirlstalentshow.jpg" width="220" height="165" alt="campgirlstalentshow" style="float: left; margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px;" />Read an article on Camp Can Do titled <a href="http://www.facingcancertogether.witf.org/caregivers-and-family/where-nobody-stares-53111" target="_blank">"Where Nobody Stares,"</a> and learn about <a href="http://www.facingcancertogether.witf.org/caregivers-and-family/where-nobody-stares-53111" target="_blank">other camps</a> that are especially for kids facing cancer.</p> <p><strong>Details about the 2012 Camp Can Do camping season:</strong></p> <p><strong>When is Camp?</strong><br />Patient Camp Week 1 is scheduled for August 5 through 11, 2012&nbsp;<br />Patient Camp Week 2 is scheduled for August 12 through 18, 2012</p> <p>Website:&nbsp;<a href="http://www.cancer.org/MyACS/Pennsylvania/AreaHighlights/pacampcando">http://www.cancer.org/MyACS/Pennsylvania/AreaHighlights/pacampcando</a></p> <p><strong><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org/images/JUNE_Web/camp_gathering.jpg" width="220" height="165" alt="camp gathering" style="float: right; margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 10px;" />About the Camp:</strong><br />Camp Can Do is a camp sponsored by the American Cancer Society and provides a normal, active and safe camp experience where children can celebrate life while living through their cancer journey. Campers will explore the outdoors, swim, fish, boat, work with arts and crafts, and spend a day at Hershey Park among other activities.</p> <p><strong>Who can Camp?</strong> <br />Patient Camp is for youth ages 8 to 17 who have ever been diagnosed with cancer in the last 5 years may attend Camp Can Do. Sibling Camp is for youth ages 8 to 17 whose brother or sister has been diagnosed with cancer.</p> <p><strong>Where is Camp?</strong> <br />Camp Can Do takes place in cabins at <a href="http://www.gretnaglen.org/" target="_blank">Gretna Glen Camp &amp; Retreat</a>, located in Mt. Gretna, PA<br />Gretna Glen Camp &amp; Retreat Center 87 Old Mine Rd Lebanon, PA 17042</p> <p><strong>What kind of medical accommodations are provided?
</strong><br />Volunteer Pediatric Oncology doctors and nurses are available around-the-clock to administer routine chemotherapy, arrange for blood counts, handle medical emergencies that may arise, and adjust any program to meet campers’ needs.</p> <p><strong><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org/images/JUNE_Web/camp1.jpg" width="220" height="165" alt="camp1" style="float: left; margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px;" />How much does Camp cost?<br /></strong>Camp Can Do is an experience provided at NO COST to all campers.</p> <p>Contact Information: <br />Cindy Gebhard Phone: (717) 533-6144 x3071 <br />Email: <a href="mailto:cindy.gebhard@cancer.org">cindy.gebhard@cancer.org</a></p> <p><a href="http://www.cancer.org/MyACS/Pennsylvania/AreaHighlights/ACSPC-032714" target="_blank">Download the Camp Can Do application</a>, fill it out and mail to:<br />American Cancer Society Attention: Cindy Gebhard <br />Route 422 and Sipe Avenue <br />Hershey, PA 17033</p> <p><strong>American Camp Association Accreditation</strong> <br /><em>Camp Can Do has passed a 300-standard review to become accredited by the American Camp Association (ACA). The ACA collaborates with experts from the American Academy of Pediatrics, American Red Cross, and other youth service agencies to assure that current practices at the camp reflect the most up-to-date, research-based standards in camp operation. ACA accreditation helps to ensure summers of growth and fun in an environment committed to safety.</em></p></div> Hope Lodge of Central Pennsylvania Reopens After Makeover: Community invited to attend grand reopening ceremony 2012-06-19T20:22:00Z 2012-06-19T20:22:00Z //facingcancertogether.witf.org/caregivers-and-family/hope-lodge-of-central-pennsylvania-reopens-after-makeover-community-invited-to-attend-grand-reopening-ceremony-61812 Facing Cancer Together <div class="K2FeedImage"><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org//media/k2/items/cache/ac9eaae1d1c1dba787e6549c691345ac_L.jpg" alt="Hope Lodge of Central Pennsylvania Reopens After Makeover: Community invited to attend grand reopening ceremony" /></div><div class="K2FeedIntroText"><p>Hershey, PA (June 18, 2012)- The Hope Lodge of Central Pennsylvania will hold a grand reopening and ribbon-cutting ceremony on June 20, 2012 from 6-8 p.m. at the Hope Lodge, 125 Lucy Avenue in Hummelstown, PA, to celebrate the Lodge’s renovation and interior makeover project.</p> </div><div class="K2FeedFullText"> <p><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org/images/JUNE_Web/hope-lodge-renovation-tape-measure.jpg" width="300" height="244" alt="hope-lodge-renovation-tape-measure" style="float: right; margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 10px;" />The 14-room facility was constructed in 1987 and has served over 20,000 patients and caregivers with free lodging, saving them over $2.8 million in living expenses over the last twenty-five years. This year, thanks to the generosity of many individuals, foundations and local corporations, the American Cancer Society was able to raise funding to completely renovate the 9,000 square foot guest house. Floor-to-ceiling improvements include: a new and expanded kitchen, new bathrooms, carpeting, paint, heating and air conditioning, and new furnishings.</p> <p>Representative John Payne was just one of the many who supported the project, through a grant from The Department of Community and Economic Development. “Hershey provides state-of-the-art medical facilities and care,” he said. “As good ambassadors of our community, we recognize the importance of creating a safe and home-like environment for anyone traveling to Hershey to receive their cancer treatment. Hope Lodge provides just that.”</p> <p>Jonathan Scroggin and Scroggin Master Carpentry of Mechanicsburg provided construction services on the 10-week renovation and make-over. Guests will return to the Lodge during the last week of June.</p> <p><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org/images/JUNE_Web/hope-lodge-paints.jpg" width="300" height="200" alt="hope-lodge-paints" style="float: left; margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px;" />“We have been blessed by this project. We know that we will provide hope and comfort to patients upon their return, we look forward to the re-opening,” said Hope Lodge Manager Andrea Young. “The lodge has a new beginning, a fresh comfort abounds.”</p> <p>For more information about the Hope Lodge renovation, contact: April Ennis-Pierson with the American Cancer Society at 610-836-1717 or email <a href="mailto:april.ennis-pierson@cancer.org.">april.ennis-pierson@cancer.org.</a></p> <p>For more information about the Hope Lodge, visit <a href="//facingcancertogether.witf.org/cancer.org/HopeLodge" target="_blank">cancer.org/HopeLodge</a> or call the American Cancer Society at 1-800-227-2345.</p> <p><strong>About the American Cancer Society</strong><br /><em>The American Cancer Society combines an unyielding passion with nearly a century of experience to save lives and end suffering from cancer. As a global grassroots force of more than three million volunteers, we fight for every birthday threatened by every cancer in every community. We save lives by helping people stay well by preventing cancer or detecting it early; helping people get well by being there for them during and after a cancer diagnosis; by finding cures through investment in groundbreaking discovery; and by fighting back by rallying lawmakers to pass laws to defeat cancer and by rallying communities worldwide to join the fight. As the nation’s largest non-governmental investor in cancer research, contributing more than $3.8 billion, we turn what we know about cancer into what we do. As a result, more than 11 million people in America who have had cancer and countless more who have avoided it will be celebrating birthdays this year. To learn more about us or to get help, call us anytime, day or night, at 1-800-227-2345 or visit cancer.org.</em></p> <p><strong>You can watch the video we did of the Hope Lodge last year, before rennovations, below:</strong></p></div> <div class="K2FeedImage"><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org//media/k2/items/cache/ac9eaae1d1c1dba787e6549c691345ac_L.jpg" alt="Hope Lodge of Central Pennsylvania Reopens After Makeover: Community invited to attend grand reopening ceremony" /></div><div class="K2FeedIntroText"><p>Hershey, PA (June 18, 2012)- The Hope Lodge of Central Pennsylvania will hold a grand reopening and ribbon-cutting ceremony on June 20, 2012 from 6-8 p.m. at the Hope Lodge, 125 Lucy Avenue in Hummelstown, PA, to celebrate the Lodge’s renovation and interior makeover project.</p> </div><div class="K2FeedFullText"> <p><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org/images/JUNE_Web/hope-lodge-renovation-tape-measure.jpg" width="300" height="244" alt="hope-lodge-renovation-tape-measure" style="float: right; margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 10px;" />The 14-room facility was constructed in 1987 and has served over 20,000 patients and caregivers with free lodging, saving them over $2.8 million in living expenses over the last twenty-five years. This year, thanks to the generosity of many individuals, foundations and local corporations, the American Cancer Society was able to raise funding to completely renovate the 9,000 square foot guest house. Floor-to-ceiling improvements include: a new and expanded kitchen, new bathrooms, carpeting, paint, heating and air conditioning, and new furnishings.</p> <p>Representative John Payne was just one of the many who supported the project, through a grant from The Department of Community and Economic Development. “Hershey provides state-of-the-art medical facilities and care,” he said. “As good ambassadors of our community, we recognize the importance of creating a safe and home-like environment for anyone traveling to Hershey to receive their cancer treatment. Hope Lodge provides just that.”</p> <p>Jonathan Scroggin and Scroggin Master Carpentry of Mechanicsburg provided construction services on the 10-week renovation and make-over. Guests will return to the Lodge during the last week of June.</p> <p><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org/images/JUNE_Web/hope-lodge-paints.jpg" width="300" height="200" alt="hope-lodge-paints" style="float: left; margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px;" />“We have been blessed by this project. We know that we will provide hope and comfort to patients upon their return, we look forward to the re-opening,” said Hope Lodge Manager Andrea Young. “The lodge has a new beginning, a fresh comfort abounds.”</p> <p>For more information about the Hope Lodge renovation, contact: April Ennis-Pierson with the American Cancer Society at 610-836-1717 or email <a href="mailto:april.ennis-pierson@cancer.org.">april.ennis-pierson@cancer.org.</a></p> <p>For more information about the Hope Lodge, visit <a href="//facingcancertogether.witf.org/cancer.org/HopeLodge" target="_blank">cancer.org/HopeLodge</a> or call the American Cancer Society at 1-800-227-2345.</p> <p><strong>About the American Cancer Society</strong><br /><em>The American Cancer Society combines an unyielding passion with nearly a century of experience to save lives and end suffering from cancer. As a global grassroots force of more than three million volunteers, we fight for every birthday threatened by every cancer in every community. We save lives by helping people stay well by preventing cancer or detecting it early; helping people get well by being there for them during and after a cancer diagnosis; by finding cures through investment in groundbreaking discovery; and by fighting back by rallying lawmakers to pass laws to defeat cancer and by rallying communities worldwide to join the fight. As the nation’s largest non-governmental investor in cancer research, contributing more than $3.8 billion, we turn what we know about cancer into what we do. As a result, more than 11 million people in America who have had cancer and countless more who have avoided it will be celebrating birthdays this year. To learn more about us or to get help, call us anytime, day or night, at 1-800-227-2345 or visit cancer.org.</em></p> <p><strong>You can watch the video we did of the Hope Lodge last year, before rennovations, below:</strong></p></div> Ben Witter: Golf pro, dad, and cancer survivor 2012-06-15T20:57:00Z 2012-06-15T20:57:00Z //facingcancertogether.witf.org/caregivers-and-family/ben-witter-golf-pro-dad-and-cancer-survivor-61412 Facing Cancer Together <div class="K2FeedImage"><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org//media/k2/items/cache/dbf38d4f97abb8ef843a32ffd8c16913_L.jpg" alt="Ben Witter: Golf pro, dad, and cancer survivor" /></div><div class="K2FeedIntroText"><p>“The neat thing about golf is that every day, even if playing the same course, you have unique challenges: different weather, wind terrain, the surroundings always changing.<span>&nbsp; </span>You have to adapt your skills to meet the changing demand.<span>&nbsp; </span>And the life lesson is that you have to be wiling to adapt your path in life to meet whatever challenges come your way.” &nbsp;This is the philosophy of PGA golf pro, father and twenty plus year cancer survivor, <a href="http://www.benspowergolf.com/About-Ben.aspx" target="_blank">Ben Witter</a>.</p> </div><div class="K2FeedFullText"> <p>His 1<sup>st</sup> cancer diagnosis came in 1988 when he was playing on a mini tour.<span>&nbsp; </span>He was diagnosed with <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Adenoid_cystic_carcinoma" target="_blank">adenoid cystic carcinoma</a> of the jaw.<span>&nbsp; </span>It’s a cancer of the adenoid gland that goes into the gland and from there, travels into the body.<span>&nbsp; </span>“Technically, it’s stage IV metastatic disease, not a very good thing to have.<span>&nbsp; </span>So, in many ways, it forces me to look at what time is left and make most of it,” Ben says.</p> <p>He hasn’t let cancer get in the way of building a career.<span>&nbsp; </span>He says, “One piece of advice is just don’t stop living.<span>&nbsp; </span>You know, my goal is to never again be a cancer patient.<span>&nbsp; </span>I want to be busy and active for rest of my days.”</p> <p><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org/images/JUNE_Web/ben-witter-trick-shot-golf.jpg" width="300" height="196" alt="ben-witter-trick-shot-golf" style="float: left; margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px;" />When Ben was in the hospital doing radiation treatment, he became depressed.<span>&nbsp; </span>“I had gotten a lousy attitude.<span>&nbsp; </span>Then, my mom brought a golf ball and club into my room and I started tapping it up and down, and that’s how I learned I could do trick shots.” He started seeing the reactions people had to some of shots that he could hit, and he turned that into a career teaching golf, and hosting a <a href="http://www.benspowergolf.com/" target="_blank">trick shot show</a> that he took around the world.</p> <p>He says, smiling, “It just turned out to be amazing gift because not only did it allow me to get through my first round of cancer, but it renewed my interest in a career in golf.<span>&nbsp; </span>So, it turned out to be pretty special.” &nbsp;<strong>Scroll down to watch the video of Ben's story.</strong></p> <p>Ben says, “When I first started doing the show, I felt self-conscious about my looks and speech.<span>&nbsp; </span>But, a close friend said to me, ‘Don’t hide your story.<span>&nbsp; </span>Tell them what you’re about.’<span>&nbsp; </span>All of a sudden, there was this common bond with so many people.”<span>&nbsp; </span>His story has inspired many who are facing cancer in their own life.<span>&nbsp; </span>“I’m not just out there hitting golf balls… I’m sharing my fight,” he says.</p> <p>He’s done his show in 38 states in the US and 14 countries including Japan, Spain, India and Thailand.</p> <p><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org/images/JUNE_Web/ben-gabbie.jpg" width="300" height="268" alt="ben-gabbie" style="float: right; margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 10px;" />None of Ben’s personal experience facing cancer could compare to getting news that his daughter, Gabbie, also had cancer.</p> <p><a href="http://takeaswing4benandgabbie.com/" target="_blank">Gabbie </a>was diagnosed with <a href="http://www.cancer.org/cancer/ewingfamilyoftumors/index" target="_blank">Ewing’s sarcoma</a>, a very rare cancer that attacks bone marrow. &nbsp;<span>&nbsp;</span>While going through 8 months of chemo, she leaned on her family for support, especially her dad who she looked up to.<span>&nbsp; </span>“Having been diagnosed, she’s seen me go through it and it gave her strength and courage face it without that doomsday fear,” Ben says.</p> <p>“There’s negativity and depression that comes with a cancer diagnosis that are mentally and physically challenging.<span>&nbsp; </span>I tell Gabbie, ‘Stay positive and look forward to what’s next, not just treatment… your senior year of high school.<span>&nbsp; </span>Thankfully, Gabbie has done well.<span>&nbsp; </span>She’s back at school, her hair is growing back, and as Ben says, “She’s well on way to being normal teenager again so that’s great. It’s been a blessing.”</p> <p>Ben is extremely proud of how Gabbie has dealt with her diagnosis, saying, “She’s dedicated herself to helping others. She’s a great kid.”</p> <p>Read Ben’s powerful<a href="http://takeaswing4benandgabbie.com/2012/01/dear-cancer/" target="_blank"> letter to cancer </a>that he shared on his blog</p> <p><em><strong>Are you a parent with a child who is facing cancer? &nbsp;Are you going through it yourself? &nbsp;What words of advice can you offer?</strong></em></p></div> <div class="K2FeedImage"><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org//media/k2/items/cache/dbf38d4f97abb8ef843a32ffd8c16913_L.jpg" alt="Ben Witter: Golf pro, dad, and cancer survivor" /></div><div class="K2FeedIntroText"><p>“The neat thing about golf is that every day, even if playing the same course, you have unique challenges: different weather, wind terrain, the surroundings always changing.<span>&nbsp; </span>You have to adapt your skills to meet the changing demand.<span>&nbsp; </span>And the life lesson is that you have to be wiling to adapt your path in life to meet whatever challenges come your way.” &nbsp;This is the philosophy of PGA golf pro, father and twenty plus year cancer survivor, <a href="http://www.benspowergolf.com/About-Ben.aspx" target="_blank">Ben Witter</a>.</p> </div><div class="K2FeedFullText"> <p>His 1<sup>st</sup> cancer diagnosis came in 1988 when he was playing on a mini tour.<span>&nbsp; </span>He was diagnosed with <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Adenoid_cystic_carcinoma" target="_blank">adenoid cystic carcinoma</a> of the jaw.<span>&nbsp; </span>It’s a cancer of the adenoid gland that goes into the gland and from there, travels into the body.<span>&nbsp; </span>“Technically, it’s stage IV metastatic disease, not a very good thing to have.<span>&nbsp; </span>So, in many ways, it forces me to look at what time is left and make most of it,” Ben says.</p> <p>He hasn’t let cancer get in the way of building a career.<span>&nbsp; </span>He says, “One piece of advice is just don’t stop living.<span>&nbsp; </span>You know, my goal is to never again be a cancer patient.<span>&nbsp; </span>I want to be busy and active for rest of my days.”</p> <p><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org/images/JUNE_Web/ben-witter-trick-shot-golf.jpg" width="300" height="196" alt="ben-witter-trick-shot-golf" style="float: left; margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px;" />When Ben was in the hospital doing radiation treatment, he became depressed.<span>&nbsp; </span>“I had gotten a lousy attitude.<span>&nbsp; </span>Then, my mom brought a golf ball and club into my room and I started tapping it up and down, and that’s how I learned I could do trick shots.” He started seeing the reactions people had to some of shots that he could hit, and he turned that into a career teaching golf, and hosting a <a href="http://www.benspowergolf.com/" target="_blank">trick shot show</a> that he took around the world.</p> <p>He says, smiling, “It just turned out to be amazing gift because not only did it allow me to get through my first round of cancer, but it renewed my interest in a career in golf.<span>&nbsp; </span>So, it turned out to be pretty special.” &nbsp;<strong>Scroll down to watch the video of Ben's story.</strong></p> <p>Ben says, “When I first started doing the show, I felt self-conscious about my looks and speech.<span>&nbsp; </span>But, a close friend said to me, ‘Don’t hide your story.<span>&nbsp; </span>Tell them what you’re about.’<span>&nbsp; </span>All of a sudden, there was this common bond with so many people.”<span>&nbsp; </span>His story has inspired many who are facing cancer in their own life.<span>&nbsp; </span>“I’m not just out there hitting golf balls… I’m sharing my fight,” he says.</p> <p>He’s done his show in 38 states in the US and 14 countries including Japan, Spain, India and Thailand.</p> <p><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org/images/JUNE_Web/ben-gabbie.jpg" width="300" height="268" alt="ben-gabbie" style="float: right; margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 10px;" />None of Ben’s personal experience facing cancer could compare to getting news that his daughter, Gabbie, also had cancer.</p> <p><a href="http://takeaswing4benandgabbie.com/" target="_blank">Gabbie </a>was diagnosed with <a href="http://www.cancer.org/cancer/ewingfamilyoftumors/index" target="_blank">Ewing’s sarcoma</a>, a very rare cancer that attacks bone marrow. &nbsp;<span>&nbsp;</span>While going through 8 months of chemo, she leaned on her family for support, especially her dad who she looked up to.<span>&nbsp; </span>“Having been diagnosed, she’s seen me go through it and it gave her strength and courage face it without that doomsday fear,” Ben says.</p> <p>“There’s negativity and depression that comes with a cancer diagnosis that are mentally and physically challenging.<span>&nbsp; </span>I tell Gabbie, ‘Stay positive and look forward to what’s next, not just treatment… your senior year of high school.<span>&nbsp; </span>Thankfully, Gabbie has done well.<span>&nbsp; </span>She’s back at school, her hair is growing back, and as Ben says, “She’s well on way to being normal teenager again so that’s great. It’s been a blessing.”</p> <p>Ben is extremely proud of how Gabbie has dealt with her diagnosis, saying, “She’s dedicated herself to helping others. She’s a great kid.”</p> <p>Read Ben’s powerful<a href="http://takeaswing4benandgabbie.com/2012/01/dear-cancer/" target="_blank"> letter to cancer </a>that he shared on his blog</p> <p><em><strong>Are you a parent with a child who is facing cancer? &nbsp;Are you going through it yourself? &nbsp;What words of advice can you offer?</strong></em></p></div> Adoptees' right to biological parents' medical history 2012-05-10T17:14:04Z 2012-05-10T17:14:04Z //facingcancertogether.witf.org/caregivers-and-family/adoptees-right-to-biological-parents-medical-history-51012 Facing Cancer Together <div class="K2FeedImage"><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org//media/k2/items/cache/1f9467ed0ebd32e9dc822d63c55d5401_L.jpg" alt="Adoptees' right to biological parents' medical history" /></div><div class="K2FeedIntroText"><p>Knowing your family medical history is important. &nbsp;What rights do adoptees in Pennsylvania have to <a href="http://paadopteenews.blogspot.com/p/links-and-resources.html" target="_blank">obtain information</a>&nbsp;about their biological parents' medical histories?</p> </div><div class="K2FeedFullText"> <p><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org/images/MAY_WEB/adoption-rights.jpg" width="250" height="166" alt="adoption-rights" style="float: left; margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px;" />We discussed this important topic with Amanda Transue-Woolston who is an adult adoptee and&nbsp;founder of the group&nbsp;<a href="http://paadopteenews.blogspot.com" target="_blank">Pennsylvania Adoptee Rights</a>. &nbsp;Amanda was born/adopted in Tennessee which is a partial-access state. &nbsp;When she gained access to her original birth certificate and&nbsp;obtained the right to her biological parents' medical histories, she discovered an array of medical issues including Diabetes and cancer. &nbsp;</p> <p>She is now an advocate for adoptees in Pennsylvania, her current state of residence. Amanda is a Social Work student at West Chester University of Pennsylvania, a member of the&nbsp;<a href="http://www.nasw-pa.org/" target="_blank">NASW</a>&nbsp;and a board member of&nbsp;<a href="http://www.adopteerightscoalition.org/" target="_blank">Adoptee Rights Coalition</a>.</p> <p><strong>Listen to the program:</strong></p> <p>{mp3remote}http://witf.vo.llnwd.net/o35/FCT/FCTAdoptee.mp3{/mp3remote}</p> <p><a href="http://paadopteenews.blogspot.com" target="_blank"><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org/images/MAY_WEB/newparlogo.jpg" width="200" height="200" alt="newparlogo" style="float: right; margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 10px;" />Pennsylvania Adoptee Rights</a>: &nbsp;<strong>We Believe...</strong></p> <p><em>We believe that truth, heritage, and identity are Civil and Basic Human Rights. &nbsp;We are dedicated to providing information and education to spread awareness about the issues faced by adult adoptees living in the United States. &nbsp;We are a grassroots group of concerned members and allies of the adoption community united for the purpose of restoring access to truth, identity, and respect to adult adoptees who were born in Pennsylvania.</em></p> <p>Follow PAR on <a href="https://www.facebook.com/adopteesrightspa" target="_blank">Facebook</a>.</p> <p><em>Are you an adoptee who is seeking your biological parents' medical history?&nbsp; Tell us about it in a comment below.</em></p> <p>Why is knowing your family history important? &nbsp;Find out more in this blog&nbsp;"Know Your Family History," written by&nbsp;Chanh Huynh, M.D.,&nbsp;Medical Oncologist with&nbsp;<a href="http://www.wellspan.org/body.cfm?id=427" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">Cancer Care Associates of York</a>&nbsp;and&nbsp;<a href="http://www.wellspan.org/" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">WellSpan Health</a>.</p> <div><img alt="family genetics and cancer" src="http://www.facingcancertogether.witf.org/images/Aug_Web/25395047.jpg" width="125" height="188" style="float: left; margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px;" /> <p><em>Patients often do not give a detailed family history because they do not see how this information has any significance to their current care.</em></p> </div> <div> <p><em>Fortunately, significant breakthroughs in cancer biology have shown genetics to be essential to understanding the development of cancer and thus create an incumbency upon providers to always obtain a comprehensive family history.&nbsp; Furthermore, advances in genetic testing have helped build predictive models for cancer development and thus can be used to guide early cancer screening tools that form the foundation of effective preventative medicine.</em></p> </div> <p><a href="http://www.facingcancertogether.witf.org/expert-journal/know-your-family-history-8811" target="_blank">Read entire blog here.</a></p> <p>You can also read&nbsp;<a href="http://www.facingcancertogether.witf.org/research-and-clinical-trials/for-the-next-generations-42611" target="_blank">"For the Next Generations,"</a>&nbsp;an inspiring&nbsp;story about a mother who helped save the lives of her children and grandchildren through genetic testing.&nbsp;</p> <p><i><br /></i></p></div> <div class="K2FeedImage"><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org//media/k2/items/cache/1f9467ed0ebd32e9dc822d63c55d5401_L.jpg" alt="Adoptees' right to biological parents' medical history" /></div><div class="K2FeedIntroText"><p>Knowing your family medical history is important. &nbsp;What rights do adoptees in Pennsylvania have to <a href="http://paadopteenews.blogspot.com/p/links-and-resources.html" target="_blank">obtain information</a>&nbsp;about their biological parents' medical histories?</p> </div><div class="K2FeedFullText"> <p><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org/images/MAY_WEB/adoption-rights.jpg" width="250" height="166" alt="adoption-rights" style="float: left; margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px;" />We discussed this important topic with Amanda Transue-Woolston who is an adult adoptee and&nbsp;founder of the group&nbsp;<a href="http://paadopteenews.blogspot.com" target="_blank">Pennsylvania Adoptee Rights</a>. &nbsp;Amanda was born/adopted in Tennessee which is a partial-access state. &nbsp;When she gained access to her original birth certificate and&nbsp;obtained the right to her biological parents' medical histories, she discovered an array of medical issues including Diabetes and cancer. &nbsp;</p> <p>She is now an advocate for adoptees in Pennsylvania, her current state of residence. Amanda is a Social Work student at West Chester University of Pennsylvania, a member of the&nbsp;<a href="http://www.nasw-pa.org/" target="_blank">NASW</a>&nbsp;and a board member of&nbsp;<a href="http://www.adopteerightscoalition.org/" target="_blank">Adoptee Rights Coalition</a>.</p> <p><strong>Listen to the program:</strong></p> <p>{mp3remote}http://witf.vo.llnwd.net/o35/FCT/FCTAdoptee.mp3{/mp3remote}</p> <p><a href="http://paadopteenews.blogspot.com" target="_blank"><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org/images/MAY_WEB/newparlogo.jpg" width="200" height="200" alt="newparlogo" style="float: right; margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 10px;" />Pennsylvania Adoptee Rights</a>: &nbsp;<strong>We Believe...</strong></p> <p><em>We believe that truth, heritage, and identity are Civil and Basic Human Rights. &nbsp;We are dedicated to providing information and education to spread awareness about the issues faced by adult adoptees living in the United States. &nbsp;We are a grassroots group of concerned members and allies of the adoption community united for the purpose of restoring access to truth, identity, and respect to adult adoptees who were born in Pennsylvania.</em></p> <p>Follow PAR on <a href="https://www.facebook.com/adopteesrightspa" target="_blank">Facebook</a>.</p> <p><em>Are you an adoptee who is seeking your biological parents' medical history?&nbsp; Tell us about it in a comment below.</em></p> <p>Why is knowing your family history important? &nbsp;Find out more in this blog&nbsp;"Know Your Family History," written by&nbsp;Chanh Huynh, M.D.,&nbsp;Medical Oncologist with&nbsp;<a href="http://www.wellspan.org/body.cfm?id=427" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">Cancer Care Associates of York</a>&nbsp;and&nbsp;<a href="http://www.wellspan.org/" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">WellSpan Health</a>.</p> <div><img alt="family genetics and cancer" src="http://www.facingcancertogether.witf.org/images/Aug_Web/25395047.jpg" width="125" height="188" style="float: left; margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px;" /> <p><em>Patients often do not give a detailed family history because they do not see how this information has any significance to their current care.</em></p> </div> <div> <p><em>Fortunately, significant breakthroughs in cancer biology have shown genetics to be essential to understanding the development of cancer and thus create an incumbency upon providers to always obtain a comprehensive family history.&nbsp; Furthermore, advances in genetic testing have helped build predictive models for cancer development and thus can be used to guide early cancer screening tools that form the foundation of effective preventative medicine.</em></p> </div> <p><a href="http://www.facingcancertogether.witf.org/expert-journal/know-your-family-history-8811" target="_blank">Read entire blog here.</a></p> <p>You can also read&nbsp;<a href="http://www.facingcancertogether.witf.org/research-and-clinical-trials/for-the-next-generations-42611" target="_blank">"For the Next Generations,"</a>&nbsp;an inspiring&nbsp;story about a mother who helped save the lives of her children and grandchildren through genetic testing.&nbsp;</p> <p><i><br /></i></p></div> Reproduction: A cancer survivor's miracle babies 2012-05-09T17:43:00Z 2012-05-09T17:43:00Z //facingcancertogether.witf.org/caregivers-and-family/reproduction-a-cancer-survivor-s-miracle-babies-5912 Facing Cancer Together <div class="K2FeedImage"><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org//media/k2/items/cache/094d739d968df36a87418643dcb9d4ac_L.jpg" alt="Reproduction: A cancer survivor's miracle babies" /></div><div class="K2FeedIntroText"><p>Amy Goodling, 30 years old, is a seven-and-a-half year<a href="http://www.facingcancertogether.witf.org/tags/ovarian" target="_blank"> ovarian cancer </a>survivor. &nbsp;But, her fear at the time wasn’t chemotherapy and wasn’t fighting the cancer. &nbsp;“It was whether I was going to be able to have children,” she said.</p> </div><div class="K2FeedFullText"> <p>Amy said, “When I was diagnosed I had originally thought I had a bladder infection, so I started going to my family doctor, who referred me to a GYN, and within a week and a half I was to the family doctor, had an ultrasound, CAT scan, and a CA-125 tumor marker that was drawn and ended up going to a GYN oncologist, Dr. Willis, who gave me a 30 percent chance it was ovarian cancer.”<br /><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org/images/MAY_WEB/mother-child-tiny-hand.jpg" width="300" height="200" alt="mother-child-tiny-hand" style="float: left; margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px;" />As a newlywed trying to start a family, Amy spoke with her doctor about her options. &nbsp;“Most ovarian cancer patients have a hysterectomy. I was very fortunate in the fact that I did get to Dr. Willis as early as I did, and was able, he was able to salvage my left ovary.”</p> <p>They discussed harvesting eggs, but unfortunately Amy’s situation was time-sensitive and she needed to get into surgery so harvesting eggs was not an option.&nbsp;Amy said, “I was very adamant that I didn’t want to have a hysterectomy, but the day of pre-op I remember going into Dr. Willis saying, ‘If it is cancer, I want you to remove everything,’ because it was more important for me to be there for my husband and my family.”</p> <p>She doesn’t deny that it put a hard stress on her marriage. &nbsp; She said, “It was just taking one day at a time and getting through what we needed to get through so we could get to the next part of our lives together.”</p> <p>Now Amy and her husband have four-and-a-half-year-old daughter, Alyssa, and another one on the way. &nbsp; <em><strong>Scroll down to watch Amy's story.</strong></em></p> <p>“Once we conceived with Alyssa, as far as the chemotherapy, there weren’t any concerns. We knew it was possible. There was a chance. It was important to wait that year after the chemotherapy just so the body is normalized again, but after it happened, it was fine. We weren’t at high risk as far as the chemo drugs are concerned, and she’s very healthy and didn’t have any complications.”</p> <p>“They are our miracle babies and they will always have a special place in our hearts,” Amy said.</p> <p><a href="http://www.cancer.org/Treatment/TreatmentsandSideEffects/PhysicalSideEffects/FertilityandCancerWhatAreMyOptions/index" target="_blank">Learn more about fertility and cancer.<br /></a><a href="http://www.fertilehope.org/" target="_blank">Fertile Hope</a> provides information, hope and support for &nbsp;cancer patients. &nbsp;<a href="http://www.cancer.org/Treatment/TreatmentsandSideEffects/PhysicalSideEffects/FertilityandCancerWhatAreMyOptions/index" target="_blank"></a></p> <p><em>Have you struggled with reproduction while facing cancer in your own life? &nbsp;Do you have a 'miracle baby?' Please share our thoughts in a comment below.</em></p></div> <div class="K2FeedImage"><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org//media/k2/items/cache/094d739d968df36a87418643dcb9d4ac_L.jpg" alt="Reproduction: A cancer survivor's miracle babies" /></div><div class="K2FeedIntroText"><p>Amy Goodling, 30 years old, is a seven-and-a-half year<a href="http://www.facingcancertogether.witf.org/tags/ovarian" target="_blank"> ovarian cancer </a>survivor. &nbsp;But, her fear at the time wasn’t chemotherapy and wasn’t fighting the cancer. &nbsp;“It was whether I was going to be able to have children,” she said.</p> </div><div class="K2FeedFullText"> <p>Amy said, “When I was diagnosed I had originally thought I had a bladder infection, so I started going to my family doctor, who referred me to a GYN, and within a week and a half I was to the family doctor, had an ultrasound, CAT scan, and a CA-125 tumor marker that was drawn and ended up going to a GYN oncologist, Dr. Willis, who gave me a 30 percent chance it was ovarian cancer.”<br /><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org/images/MAY_WEB/mother-child-tiny-hand.jpg" width="300" height="200" alt="mother-child-tiny-hand" style="float: left; margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px;" />As a newlywed trying to start a family, Amy spoke with her doctor about her options. &nbsp;“Most ovarian cancer patients have a hysterectomy. I was very fortunate in the fact that I did get to Dr. Willis as early as I did, and was able, he was able to salvage my left ovary.”</p> <p>They discussed harvesting eggs, but unfortunately Amy’s situation was time-sensitive and she needed to get into surgery so harvesting eggs was not an option.&nbsp;Amy said, “I was very adamant that I didn’t want to have a hysterectomy, but the day of pre-op I remember going into Dr. Willis saying, ‘If it is cancer, I want you to remove everything,’ because it was more important for me to be there for my husband and my family.”</p> <p>She doesn’t deny that it put a hard stress on her marriage. &nbsp; She said, “It was just taking one day at a time and getting through what we needed to get through so we could get to the next part of our lives together.”</p> <p>Now Amy and her husband have four-and-a-half-year-old daughter, Alyssa, and another one on the way. &nbsp; <em><strong>Scroll down to watch Amy's story.</strong></em></p> <p>“Once we conceived with Alyssa, as far as the chemotherapy, there weren’t any concerns. We knew it was possible. There was a chance. It was important to wait that year after the chemotherapy just so the body is normalized again, but after it happened, it was fine. We weren’t at high risk as far as the chemo drugs are concerned, and she’s very healthy and didn’t have any complications.”</p> <p>“They are our miracle babies and they will always have a special place in our hearts,” Amy said.</p> <p><a href="http://www.cancer.org/Treatment/TreatmentsandSideEffects/PhysicalSideEffects/FertilityandCancerWhatAreMyOptions/index" target="_blank">Learn more about fertility and cancer.<br /></a><a href="http://www.fertilehope.org/" target="_blank">Fertile Hope</a> provides information, hope and support for &nbsp;cancer patients. &nbsp;<a href="http://www.cancer.org/Treatment/TreatmentsandSideEffects/PhysicalSideEffects/FertilityandCancerWhatAreMyOptions/index" target="_blank"></a></p> <p><em>Have you struggled with reproduction while facing cancer in your own life? &nbsp;Do you have a 'miracle baby?' Please share our thoughts in a comment below.</em></p></div> Caring for the caregiver 2012-04-17T13:51:03Z 2012-04-17T13:51:03Z //facingcancertogether.witf.org/caregivers-and-family/caring-for-the-caregiver-41712 Facing Cancer Together <div class="K2FeedImage"><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org//media/k2/items/cache/91650abe72b74891ce17dffa3726f716_L.jpg" alt="Caring for the caregiver" /></div><div class="K2FeedIntroText"><p>(Orlando) -- Many times, when someone is diagnosed with cancer, a spouse, family member, or friend will act as a caregiver to help with the patient's needs. But sometimes caregivers become so engrossed in looking after their loved ones, they forget to take care of themselves.</p> </div><div class="K2FeedFullText"> <p><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org/images/APR_WEB/caregiver-hands.jpg" width="200" height="150" alt="caregiver-hands" style="float: right; margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 10px;" />Rob Harris, who's based in Orlando, says that's what happened to him as he cared for his wife, Cindy, during her two separate battles with cancer.</p> <p>As part of&nbsp;<strong>witf</strong>'s multimedia&nbsp;<em>Facing Cancer Together</em>&nbsp;project, Harris spoke with&nbsp;<strong>witf</strong>'s Megan Lello about being a caregiver and the blog he's set up for other people going through similar situations,&nbsp;<a href="http://robcares.com/" target="_blank">RobCares</a>:</p> <p>{mp3remote}http://witf.vo.llnwd.net/o35/fmnews/fct-rob-harris.mp3{/mp3remote}</p> <p>Rob shares that it is <a href="http://robcares.com/2012/03/15/a-caregiver-needs-time-away-from-the-patient" target="_blank">important for a caregiver to spend some time away from the patient</a> to recharge physically and emotionally. &nbsp;</p> <p><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org/images/APR_WEB/husband-cancer-caregiver.jpg" width="200" height="133" alt="husband-cancer-caregiver" style="float: left; margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px;" />Not only does Rob share a wealth of insight for caregivers from his own experiences. but he provides a vast collection of wonderful resource links. &nbsp;We've listed several below, but <a href="http://robcares.com/caregiver-links" target="_blank">visit RobCares for the entire list.&nbsp;</a></p> <p><a href="http://blog.whatnext.com/blog/peer-perspectives/what-it-means-to-be-a-caregiver" target="_blank">He shares more perspectives on caregiving</a> in a guest blog he was asked to write for the American Cancer Society.</p> <p>CAREGIVER SUPPORT ORGANIZATIONS:</p> <p><a href="http://caregiverpartnership.com" target="_blank">Caregiver Partnership<br /></a><a href="http://www.thecaregiversvoice.com/" target="_blank">Caregiver’s Voice<br /></a><a href="http://epec.net/epec_caregiver.php%20" target="_blank">The Education in Palliative and End-of-life Care for Caregivers</a> (EPEC – Caregivers)<br /><a href="http://www.caregiver.org" target="_blank">Family Caregiver Alliance<br /></a><a href="http://www.caregiving.org" target="_blank">National Alliance for Caregiving</a> (NAC)<br /><a href="http://www.caregiverslibrary.org/" target="_blank"><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org/images/APR_WEB/caregiver-pills.jpg" width="200" height="133" alt="caregiver-pills" style="float: right; margin: 10px;" />National Caregivers Library<br /></a><a href="http://www.nfcacares.org" target="_blank">National Family Caregivers Association</a> (NFCA)<br /><a href="http://www.chtop.com/locator.htm" target="_blank">National Respite Locator Service<br /></a><a href="http://www.wellspouse.org" target="_blank">Well Spouse Foundation<br /></a><a href="http://www.wellness-community.org" target="_blank">Wellness Community&nbsp;</a></p> <p><a href="http://www.facingcancertogether.witf.org/caregivers-and-family" target="_blank">Explore more stories about caregiving</a> at our Caregivers and Families web section.</p> <p><strong><em>Have you been a caregiver to someone in your life? &nbsp;What perspectives can you share? &nbsp;So you have any favorite blogs that help you? &nbsp; Please leave a comment.</em></strong></p></div> <div class="K2FeedImage"><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org//media/k2/items/cache/91650abe72b74891ce17dffa3726f716_L.jpg" alt="Caring for the caregiver" /></div><div class="K2FeedIntroText"><p>(Orlando) -- Many times, when someone is diagnosed with cancer, a spouse, family member, or friend will act as a caregiver to help with the patient's needs. But sometimes caregivers become so engrossed in looking after their loved ones, they forget to take care of themselves.</p> </div><div class="K2FeedFullText"> <p><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org/images/APR_WEB/caregiver-hands.jpg" width="200" height="150" alt="caregiver-hands" style="float: right; margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 10px;" />Rob Harris, who's based in Orlando, says that's what happened to him as he cared for his wife, Cindy, during her two separate battles with cancer.</p> <p>As part of&nbsp;<strong>witf</strong>'s multimedia&nbsp;<em>Facing Cancer Together</em>&nbsp;project, Harris spoke with&nbsp;<strong>witf</strong>'s Megan Lello about being a caregiver and the blog he's set up for other people going through similar situations,&nbsp;<a href="http://robcares.com/" target="_blank">RobCares</a>:</p> <p>{mp3remote}http://witf.vo.llnwd.net/o35/fmnews/fct-rob-harris.mp3{/mp3remote}</p> <p>Rob shares that it is <a href="http://robcares.com/2012/03/15/a-caregiver-needs-time-away-from-the-patient" target="_blank">important for a caregiver to spend some time away from the patient</a> to recharge physically and emotionally. &nbsp;</p> <p><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org/images/APR_WEB/husband-cancer-caregiver.jpg" width="200" height="133" alt="husband-cancer-caregiver" style="float: left; margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px;" />Not only does Rob share a wealth of insight for caregivers from his own experiences. but he provides a vast collection of wonderful resource links. &nbsp;We've listed several below, but <a href="http://robcares.com/caregiver-links" target="_blank">visit RobCares for the entire list.&nbsp;</a></p> <p><a href="http://blog.whatnext.com/blog/peer-perspectives/what-it-means-to-be-a-caregiver" target="_blank">He shares more perspectives on caregiving</a> in a guest blog he was asked to write for the American Cancer Society.</p> <p>CAREGIVER SUPPORT ORGANIZATIONS:</p> <p><a href="http://caregiverpartnership.com" target="_blank">Caregiver Partnership<br /></a><a href="http://www.thecaregiversvoice.com/" target="_blank">Caregiver’s Voice<br /></a><a href="http://epec.net/epec_caregiver.php%20" target="_blank">The Education in Palliative and End-of-life Care for Caregivers</a> (EPEC – Caregivers)<br /><a href="http://www.caregiver.org" target="_blank">Family Caregiver Alliance<br /></a><a href="http://www.caregiving.org" target="_blank">National Alliance for Caregiving</a> (NAC)<br /><a href="http://www.caregiverslibrary.org/" target="_blank"><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org/images/APR_WEB/caregiver-pills.jpg" width="200" height="133" alt="caregiver-pills" style="float: right; margin: 10px;" />National Caregivers Library<br /></a><a href="http://www.nfcacares.org" target="_blank">National Family Caregivers Association</a> (NFCA)<br /><a href="http://www.chtop.com/locator.htm" target="_blank">National Respite Locator Service<br /></a><a href="http://www.wellspouse.org" target="_blank">Well Spouse Foundation<br /></a><a href="http://www.wellness-community.org" target="_blank">Wellness Community&nbsp;</a></p> <p><a href="http://www.facingcancertogether.witf.org/caregivers-and-family" target="_blank">Explore more stories about caregiving</a> at our Caregivers and Families web section.</p> <p><strong><em>Have you been a caregiver to someone in your life? &nbsp;What perspectives can you share? &nbsp;So you have any favorite blogs that help you? &nbsp; Please leave a comment.</em></strong></p></div> Penn State's 40th year of THON 2012-02-17T16:22:19Z 2012-02-17T16:22:19Z //facingcancertogether.witf.org/caregivers-and-family/penn-state-s-40th-year-of-thon-21712 Facing Cancer Together <div class="K2FeedImage"><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org//media/k2/items/cache/8ab790b9074fed051af256aa504a66b7_L.jpg" alt="Penn State's 40th year of THON" /></div><div class="K2FeedIntroText"><p>(Undated) -- This weekend, thousands of Penn State students and alumni will take part in an event that's become one of the most famous fundraisers for pediatric cancer research. The annual&nbsp;<a href="http://www.thon.org/">Penn State IFC/Panhellenic Dance Marathon, or "THON,"</a>&nbsp;as it's more commonly known, will take over the school's Bryce Jordan Center from this evening to Sunday afternoon.</p> </div><div class="K2FeedFullText"> <p><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org/images/Feb_Web/800px-thon.jpg" width="200" height="163" alt="800px-thon" style="float: left; margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px;" />Last year, the event raised more than $9.5 million. As part of our multimedia&nbsp;<em><a href="//facingcancertogether.witf.org/">Facing Cancer Together</a>&nbsp;</em>initiative,&nbsp;<strong>witf</strong>'s Megan Lello spoke with Suzanne Graney, the director of <a href="http://pennstatehershey.org/web/fourdiamonds/home" target="_blank">The Four Diamonds Fund</a> as well as Penn State student and THON volunteer&nbsp;Krista Petrulsky&nbsp;who fought cancer herself:</p> <p>{mp3remote}http://witf.vo.llnwd.net/o35/FCT/THON-lookahead.mp3{/mp3remote}</p> <p><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org/images/Feb_Web/joe_paterno.jpg" width="200" height="250" alt="joe_paterno" style="float: right; margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 10px;" /></p> <p>This year marks the 40th year of both THON and The Four Diamonds Fund. &nbsp;Based at <a href="http://pennstatehershey.org/web/childrens/home" target="_blank">Penn State Hershey Children's Hospital</a>, the fund covers medical expenses and other bills that aren't covered by insurance for pediatric cancer patients. &nbsp;This is the first year without longtime supporter of THON, Joe Paterno. &nbsp;THON is a part of the Joe&nbsp;Paterno&nbsp;philanthropic legacy, as he has designated THON as one of the two organizations to receive memorial donations.</p> <p>Suzanne Graney with The Four Diamonds Fund says that there are some special things in store during the dance marathon to mark this 40th anniversary of the event. &nbsp;And, there will be an alumni celebration on campus for those who have participated in marathons in the past. &nbsp;She is excited about some of the things coming this fall that will commemorate the 40 year of THON and The Four Diamonds Fund.</p> <p>Penn State student and THON volunteer&nbsp;Krista Petrulsky says, "I wanted to give back to the organization that saved my life." &nbsp;That's why she decided to attend PSU and participate in THON's pediatric cancer fundraising. &nbsp;She is now 12 years cancer-free after facing <a href="http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/acute-lymphocytic-leukemia/DS00558" target="_blank">acute lymphoblastic leukemia</a> (ALL) when she was 8. &nbsp;</p> <p><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org/images/Feb_Web/nittany-lion-penn-state-thon.jpg" width="200" height="150" alt="nittany-lion-penn-state-thon" style="float: left; margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px;" />She says that although it's been a trying few months for Penn State, the dedication to kids with cancer remains the same. &nbsp; She adds, "Everyone is there for the same reason, and when you walk into that stadium and see 10,000 students linking arms, it's pretty powerful."</p> <p>THON has donated over 78 million dollars to pediatric cancer research and care over the years &nbsp;And this year's total will be revealed at a special closing ceremony on Sunday night.</p></div> <div class="K2FeedImage"><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org//media/k2/items/cache/8ab790b9074fed051af256aa504a66b7_L.jpg" alt="Penn State's 40th year of THON" /></div><div class="K2FeedIntroText"><p>(Undated) -- This weekend, thousands of Penn State students and alumni will take part in an event that's become one of the most famous fundraisers for pediatric cancer research. The annual&nbsp;<a href="http://www.thon.org/">Penn State IFC/Panhellenic Dance Marathon, or "THON,"</a>&nbsp;as it's more commonly known, will take over the school's Bryce Jordan Center from this evening to Sunday afternoon.</p> </div><div class="K2FeedFullText"> <p><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org/images/Feb_Web/800px-thon.jpg" width="200" height="163" alt="800px-thon" style="float: left; margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px;" />Last year, the event raised more than $9.5 million. As part of our multimedia&nbsp;<em><a href="//facingcancertogether.witf.org/">Facing Cancer Together</a>&nbsp;</em>initiative,&nbsp;<strong>witf</strong>'s Megan Lello spoke with Suzanne Graney, the director of <a href="http://pennstatehershey.org/web/fourdiamonds/home" target="_blank">The Four Diamonds Fund</a> as well as Penn State student and THON volunteer&nbsp;Krista Petrulsky&nbsp;who fought cancer herself:</p> <p>{mp3remote}http://witf.vo.llnwd.net/o35/FCT/THON-lookahead.mp3{/mp3remote}</p> <p><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org/images/Feb_Web/joe_paterno.jpg" width="200" height="250" alt="joe_paterno" style="float: right; margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 10px;" /></p> <p>This year marks the 40th year of both THON and The Four Diamonds Fund. &nbsp;Based at <a href="http://pennstatehershey.org/web/childrens/home" target="_blank">Penn State Hershey Children's Hospital</a>, the fund covers medical expenses and other bills that aren't covered by insurance for pediatric cancer patients. &nbsp;This is the first year without longtime supporter of THON, Joe Paterno. &nbsp;THON is a part of the Joe&nbsp;Paterno&nbsp;philanthropic legacy, as he has designated THON as one of the two organizations to receive memorial donations.</p> <p>Suzanne Graney with The Four Diamonds Fund says that there are some special things in store during the dance marathon to mark this 40th anniversary of the event. &nbsp;And, there will be an alumni celebration on campus for those who have participated in marathons in the past. &nbsp;She is excited about some of the things coming this fall that will commemorate the 40 year of THON and The Four Diamonds Fund.</p> <p>Penn State student and THON volunteer&nbsp;Krista Petrulsky says, "I wanted to give back to the organization that saved my life." &nbsp;That's why she decided to attend PSU and participate in THON's pediatric cancer fundraising. &nbsp;She is now 12 years cancer-free after facing <a href="http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/acute-lymphocytic-leukemia/DS00558" target="_blank">acute lymphoblastic leukemia</a> (ALL) when she was 8. &nbsp;</p> <p><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org/images/Feb_Web/nittany-lion-penn-state-thon.jpg" width="200" height="150" alt="nittany-lion-penn-state-thon" style="float: left; margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px;" />She says that although it's been a trying few months for Penn State, the dedication to kids with cancer remains the same. &nbsp; She adds, "Everyone is there for the same reason, and when you walk into that stadium and see 10,000 students linking arms, it's pretty powerful."</p> <p>THON has donated over 78 million dollars to pediatric cancer research and care over the years &nbsp;And this year's total will be revealed at a special closing ceremony on Sunday night.</p></div> A nurse navigator honors patients with a symbolic tattoo 2012-02-21T20:43:00Z 2012-02-21T20:43:00Z //facingcancertogether.witf.org/caregivers-and-family/a-nurse-navigator-honors-patients-with-a-symbolic-tattoo-22112 Facing Cancer Together <div class="K2FeedImage"><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org//media/k2/items/cache/15abde3c81505959f6d2610e3cdfbe51_L.jpg" alt="A nurse navigator honors patients with a symbolic tattoo" /></div><div class="K2FeedIntroText"><p>Lynn doesn't think of herself as the typical "tattoo chick," but treated herself to a tattoo for her 40th birthday. &nbsp;Watch Lynn's story below to find out the meaning behind her tattoo.</p> </div><div class="K2FeedFullText"> <p><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org/images/Feb_Web/tattoo-lynn-fantom.jpg" width="200" height="140" alt="tattoo-lynn-fantom" style="float: left; margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px;" />Lynn Fantom, an oncology nurse navigator at Lancaster General Health, has been helping cancer patients, mainly breast cancer patients, for 8 years. &nbsp;She loves being able to help a person navigate the physical and emotional concerns after a cancer diagnosis.</p> <p>Her tattoo which is a pink ribbon angel, has wings and a halo, but no face, because for her, it fills the many faces of her patients. &nbsp;She says,&nbsp;“I learn from each patient. They give me inspiration and courage every day to do what I do, and that there’s nothing in life you can’t handle… you can face this.”</p> <p><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org/images/Feb_Web/angel-tattoo.jpg" width="200" height="157" alt="angel-tattoo" style="float: right; margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 10px;" />Her tattoo also honors her grandmother who was diagnosed with breast cancer in both breasts, and sadly passed away. &nbsp;</p> <p>Lynn says, “I want people to know that we’re continuing to make strides every day and hopefully someday… there will be a cure.”</p> <p>One of Lynn's patients was Lori Rineer, who says that breast cancer changed her &nbsp;life permanently and it’s something that she’ll never forget. &nbsp;So, she marked this chapter in her life with a breast cancer ribbon and heart tattoo that symbolizes this life-changing event. &nbsp;Each of her tattoos tells a story, and this one is a celebration of her journey. &nbsp;Watch her story here.</p> <p>Do&nbsp;<em>you</em>&nbsp;have a tattoo that celebrates your own cancer journey? &nbsp;Or have your gotten a tattoo in honor of someone fighting cancer? &nbsp;We’d love to hear your stories and see your photos. &nbsp;And, we’ll share them on our&nbsp;<em>Facing Cancer Together</em>&nbsp;<a href="http://pinterest.com/facecancer2gthr/inspired-ink-cancer-tattoos/" target="_blank">Pinterest board, “Inspired Ink: Cancer Tattoos.” &nbsp;</a></p> <p>There are a few ways that you can share with us for our board:</p> <ul> <li>Email us your tattoo photo and a brief description: <a href="mailto:facingcancertogether@witf.org">facingcancertogether@witf.org</a></li> <li>Share a photo on our Facebook page’s wall:&nbsp;<a href="https://www.facebook.com/facecancer2gthr">https://www.facebook.com/facecancer2gthr</a></li> <li>Add a patch to our Digital Quilt and share your tattoo and story there:&nbsp;<a href="http://www.facingcancertogether.co/">http://www.facingcancertogether.co/</a></li> <li>Send us a tweet: Tweet your photo and a brief description to @facecancer2gthr&nbsp;</li> <li>Pinterest: If you’d like to share a cancer tattoo you’ve pinned on your Pinterest board, please use the email button on the right-hand side of the pin and email us:&nbsp;<a href="mailto:facingcancertogether@witf.org">facingcancertogether@witf.org</a></li> </ul> <p>**Please note that you must have the rights to use the photo you submit. &nbsp;Thanks for your participation! &nbsp;Email us with questions or leave a comment below.</p></div> <div class="K2FeedImage"><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org//media/k2/items/cache/15abde3c81505959f6d2610e3cdfbe51_L.jpg" alt="A nurse navigator honors patients with a symbolic tattoo" /></div><div class="K2FeedIntroText"><p>Lynn doesn't think of herself as the typical "tattoo chick," but treated herself to a tattoo for her 40th birthday. &nbsp;Watch Lynn's story below to find out the meaning behind her tattoo.</p> </div><div class="K2FeedFullText"> <p><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org/images/Feb_Web/tattoo-lynn-fantom.jpg" width="200" height="140" alt="tattoo-lynn-fantom" style="float: left; margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px;" />Lynn Fantom, an oncology nurse navigator at Lancaster General Health, has been helping cancer patients, mainly breast cancer patients, for 8 years. &nbsp;She loves being able to help a person navigate the physical and emotional concerns after a cancer diagnosis.</p> <p>Her tattoo which is a pink ribbon angel, has wings and a halo, but no face, because for her, it fills the many faces of her patients. &nbsp;She says,&nbsp;“I learn from each patient. They give me inspiration and courage every day to do what I do, and that there’s nothing in life you can’t handle… you can face this.”</p> <p><img src="//facingcancertogether.witf.org/images/Feb_Web/angel-tattoo.jpg" width="200" height="157" alt="angel-tattoo" style="float: right; margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 10px;" />Her tattoo also honors her grandmother who was diagnosed with breast cancer in both breasts, and sadly passed away. &nbsp;</p> <p>Lynn says, “I want people to know that we’re continuing to make strides every day and hopefully someday… there will be a cure.”</p> <p>One of Lynn's patients was Lori Rineer, who says that breast cancer changed her &nbsp;life permanently and it’s something that she’ll never forget. &nbsp;So, she marked this chapter in her life with a breast cancer ribbon and heart tattoo that symbolizes this life-changing event. &nbsp;Each of her tattoos tells a story, and this one is a celebration of her journey. &nbsp;Watch her story here.</p> <p>Do&nbsp;<em>you</em>&nbsp;have a tattoo that celebrates your own cancer journey? &nbsp;Or have your gotten a tattoo in honor of someone fighting cancer? &nbsp;We’d love to hear your stories and see your photos. &nbsp;And, we’ll share them on our&nbsp;<em>Facing Cancer Together</em>&nbsp;<a href="http://pinterest.com/facecancer2gthr/inspired-ink-cancer-tattoos/" target="_blank">Pinterest board, “Inspired Ink: Cancer Tattoos.” &nbsp;</a></p> <p>There are a few ways that you can share with us for our board:</p> <ul> <li>Email us your tattoo photo and a brief description: <a href="mailto:facingcancertogether@witf.org">facingcancertogether@witf.org</a></li> <li>Share a photo on our Facebook page’s wall:&nbsp;<a href="https://www.facebook.com/facecancer2gthr">https://www.facebook.com/facecancer2gthr</a></li> <li>Add a patch to our Digital Quilt and share your tattoo and story there:&nbsp;<a href="http://www.facingcancertogether.co/">http://www.facingcancertogether.co/</a></li> <li>Send us a tweet: Tweet your photo and a brief description to @facecancer2gthr&nbsp;</li> <li>Pinterest: If you’d like to share a cancer tattoo you’ve pinned on your Pinterest board, please use the email button on the right-hand side of the pin and email us:&nbsp;<a href="mailto:facingcancertogether@witf.org">facingcancertogether@witf.org</a></li> </ul> <p>**Please note that you must have the rights to use the photo you submit. &nbsp;Thanks for your participation! &nbsp;Email us with questions or leave a comment below.</p></div>